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R U OK? A conversation can change a life

4 September 2023
How to let the people you care about know you're here to hear
R U OK? Day empowers and inspires all of us to have regular, meaningful conversations to connect with and support anyone who might be going through a difficult time.

听on Thursday 14 September is a day that reminds us that we don't need to be an expert to reach out and ask someone if they are OK. The public health promotion charity's theme for 2023 is听here to really hear, a message that encourages us to genuinely listen to people we care about who might be struggling, helping them to open up and find strategies or appropriate support to better manage life's ups and downs.

We all have what it takes to ask, listen and support one another. But checking in with others, even a close friend, can sometimes feel like a daunting task. Even though advocacy for mental health has come a long way in recent years, 听revealed that:听

  • 63% of people are not confident they know the signs that someone might be struggling;
  • 41% hadn鈥檛 asked someone if they were OK because they weren鈥檛 sure they knew the signs; and
  • 49% believed they鈥檇 be more confident starting a conversation if they knew the signs.

The R U OK? mission is to equip all Australians with the resources and confidence to navigate a conversation with someone who might be struggling. Those who are exposed to the R U OK? Day campaign are up to six times more likely to reach out to someone who might need to be asked 'are you OK', compared to those not exposed to the campaign.

An R U OK? Day campaign banner with four steps to start a conversation: Ask R U OK?; Listen; Encourage action; Check in.

Genuinely listening with an open mind makes a difference in helping people feel connected and supported. To raise awareness for identifying when someone might be struggling and how we can step in to support each other, R U OK? have developed four simple steps for starting a conversation that could change a life:

  1. 1. Ask R U OK?
  2. 2. Listen
  3. 3. Encourage action
  4. 4. Check in

Building a trusting relationship and genuinely listening in a safe and private environment are important when engaging in a meaningful R U OK? conversation. It also helps to choose the right time and place to talk to someone about how they're feeling and what's going on in ther life, whether that is:

  • On breaks from work or study
  • When exercising together
  • When connecting or doing activities together online
  • When you鈥檙e spending time together socially
  • When you鈥檙e doing an activity side-by-side
  • When you鈥檙e sharing a meal
  • When you鈥檙e travelling together, even a short trip can be a good time to talk.

Please visit the R U OK? website to听learn more about听, and for听.

If you need immediate crisis or emotional support you can contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or any of the .

In recognition of R U OK? Day, the 爆料王 is hosting several events on campus, with plenty of activities to enjoy while meaningfully connecting with your fellow students and staff.

R U OK? Day events

LocationActivitiesDate & Time
The Conservatorium of MusicA gelato stand and Student Life will be at the Con for the week of R U OK? Day.

11鈥�15 September

11 am鈥�2 pm

Coffee & Croissants @ the Library

Fisher Library & Camden Library

Free coffee and croissants at the University's Libraries.

12 September

Fisher 11 am

Camden 12 pm

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R U OK? Day听Community Lunch

Gadigal Centre

Free community lunch and yarns about self-care and wellbeing.

12 September

12:30鈥�1:30 pm

Nepean Clinical School

Level 2 common room

Free food and coffee, bike and blend, Indigenous-inspired catering from Kallico, therapy dogs from 12 pm to 1:30 pm, and a Student Life and Wellbeing desk.

12 & 13 September

12鈥�3 pm

Concord Clinical School

Concord Repatriation General

Free food and coffee, therapy dogs from 10鈥�11:30 am, and Indigenous-inspired catering from Kallico.

13 September

9 am鈥�12 pm

Coffee & Croissants @ the Library

SWHB Library

Free coffee and croissants at the University's Libraries.

13 September

11 am

Northern Sydney (Arabanoo) Precinct

Level 5 Foyer, Kolling Institute

Free food and coffee, bike and blend,听Indigenous-inspired catering from Kallico, Student Life and Wellbeing desk, and a private room for 1:1 consults.

13 September

11 am鈥�1 pm

Westmead Clinical School

Westmead Hospital, Block K

Free food and coffee, bike and blend,听Indigenous-inspired catering from Kallico, and a Student Life and Wellbeing desk.

14 September

9 am鈥�12 pm

Ther-A-Paws x R U OK? Day

New Law Lawns, Eastern Avenue

Hosted by the Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, Ther-A-Paws听is the paw-fect place to meet our furry VIP guests and take a mindful break outside.听Learn how to start the conversation that could change a life, meet our friendly pack of听trained therapy dogs and their owners, and discover more about the free mental health and wellbeing services available to you and your fellow students.

14 September

12鈥�1:30 pm

Coffee & Croissants @ the Library

The Con Library & The Quarter

Free coffee and croissants at the University's Libraries.

14 September

11 am

Peter Nicol Russell Building

Learning Hub

Pot plant painting, wellbeing and support information booths, Love BUDS plant-based catering, spin the wheel, R U OK? cupcakes, and free pats from guide dogs in training.

14 September

11 am鈥�1 pm

USU pop-up

Eastern Avenue

Giant games, free lunch from Manning Cantina, spin & win from 11:30 am (with prizes including a 12-month Headspace app subscription & double passes to Someday Soon Festival at Manning House), free sausage sizzle, free coffee, free yellow cupcakes, and free Love BUDS plant-based classic burgers.

14 September

11 am鈥�2 pm

SUPRA

Eastern Avenue

Free hugs, free food and sunflower lanyards to support people who experience a hidden disability.

14 September

11 am鈥�2 pm

Batyr

Eastern Avenue

Painting activities with pots, fabric or murals, and a free BBQ.

14 September

11 am鈥�2 pm

R U OK? Day Crafternoon hosted by Peer Support Advisors

Welcome Hub, Level 3 Wentworth Building

Engage with creative craft activities while connecting and chatting with other students and enjoying free snacks.

14 September

2:30鈥�4:30 pm

Camden Campus

Lawns outside Red Room

Casual sports on the Lawns outside of the Red Room, encouragement art including a message board, and photography activities.

14 September

4鈥�7 pm

An R U OK? campaign banner with conversation tips: be prepared for the conversation; find a private, quiet place to chat; be present and actively listen; let them know you want to support them; remove distractions; talk through ideas of what they could do to manage the situation; ensure you have enough time; share what you've noticed in a non-judgemental way; embrace any silences; check in regularly so they know you care; learn more at ruok.org.au